Picking your baby’s name is not always easy. The experience ranges from joyful, to emotional, to sometimes frustrating. This list of baby naming tips should help you to avoid common pitfalls, and to enjoy the process in a positive way.
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Start looking at baby names early. You are likely to change your mind often, so the more time you allow, the easier it will be.
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Choose the right Baby Name for your child! Don't feel that you have to stick with family tradition when choosing the right baby name. If you really like a certain baby name, use it. Once your baby is born that name will be with them forever.
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Think of your child's future. Don't mark your child with a name that will haunt him or her for the rest of their life. Many children are picked upon at school and the rest of their lives because of their name.
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The initials can be a problem by themselves. Check those initials. Make sure the first initials of the first, middle and last name do not spell anything undesirable. There are times that initials alone are required through life and having initials that spell obscene words can be very embarrassing. Steven O. Brown looks fine, until Steven gets his first monogrammed shirt, S.O.B.
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Keep your family member's names in the forefront of your mind. You may want to name your child after a grandparent, parent or other family member. Maybe that's tradition and you want to keep that tradition. That's fine, but first make sure a cousin, nephew or other family member is not using the name. It can be very confusing for everyone if there are two people in a family with the exact same name.
Ask around the family to make sure other relatives are not considering the same name. Other family members may have a special bond with a grandparent or relative and they are saving that name for their child. Work with them to create a variant name for their child or yours. Be mindful of other family members.
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Don’t be too trendy or cool. For example, Brittany was quite popular in the charts in 1990. Today, it doesn’t make the top 50. Tastes and fashions change.
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Consider your ethnic background. Be proud of your heritage by using a name that is part of your ethnic history.
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Don't be too creative with your child's name. Being unique is sometime confusing. If you are thinking of an alternative spelling for a name make sure that name exists. Your child will always have people spelling her or his name wrong if their name is not in the normal realm of thinking.
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Make the middle name something special. Be more creative on the middle name. Use a name that may not work as the first name. This maybe the perfect spot for a relatives name. Have fun with the middle name.
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Finally, be proud of the name you pick. If you’ve done your research, and agonized over it, you’ve done the best you can. And that’s a special gift for your new baby.